To support a thriving Contra Dance community, here are ways we care for each other . . .
We strive to be inclusive, welcoming, and safe:
• We welcome young and old, new and experienced dancers to enjoy the dance together.
• We offer gentle and empathetic cues when we notice someone is confused.
• We dance with whoever is coming at us—meaning people can enjoy dancing either role, regardless of their gender identity or expression.
• We come fragrance-free, knowing that some people have sensitivities.
• We arrive sober—recognizing that this is a drug and alcohol free event—and spinning and drinking just don’t mix well. 🙂
• We stay home if we are feeling ill, to keep others in our community healthy.
We communicate openly and practice consent:
• When we ask someone to dance, we graciously accept ‘no thanks’ as an answer.
• We ask our partner which role they’d like to dance – and come to an agreement together.
• We are gentle with each other – careful to respect physical limitations and preferences on any given night.
• We volunteer our preferences and needs, such as, “I’m dizzy. Can we slow down?” or holding our own arm down when a twirl is offered to indicate “no.”
• We ask partners if they would enjoy flourishes before adding them in.
We support the community:
• We support local and regional musicians and callers by giving what we can at the door.
• We also support the Tacoma Country Dance Society with donations, time, and energy as we are able.
• We give back in other ways—we help with dance chores, invite new friends to contra, and get to know newer dancers.